For 4 years, I was involved with a narcissist. I started as a girlfriend, then a friend, then a ‘fuck buddy’, then I cut him off, then back to friends, cut him off, then I became the other woman, cut him off, then a friend, then someone he was casually dating, cut him off, then I became the significant other, broke up with him 3 times in 6 months and now finally here I am. No contact. I’m finally done. Moving on.
(In case you’re wondering, “to je smůla” means “that’s a shame” in Czech. It’s pronounced toh yeh smoolah. :))